Do Dogs Get Jealous? Signs, Causes and How to Help
If you've ever noticed your pup nudging into your lap when you're patting another dog, or whining when you're giving attention elsewhere, you might be wondering: do dogs get jealous? Short answer — yes, they can. At Petdirect, we get pet, and we understand that dog behaviours, even the puzzling ones, stem from their deep bond with us. Let’s explore what canine jealousy really looks like and how to handle it the right way.
Is Jealousy Normal In Dogs?
Just like people, dogs are social animals, and when their strong bond with you feels threatened, jealousy can arise. Unlike humans, dogs don’t stew in envy — their reactions are more about protecting their place in your world than harbouring long-term gripes.
In multi-pet households, when a new dog, cat or even baby arrives on the scene, some pups may display behaviour changes that suggest they feel left out. It’s all part of your dog’s desire to stay connected, loved, and involved in the family pack.
Common Signs Of Dog Jealousy
Jealous behaviour in dogs can take many forms. While not all dogs react the same way, here are some tell-tail signs to watch out for:
- Pushing between you and other pets or people
- Whining, barking, or howling when you give attention elsewhere
- Snapping or growling at other pets
- Clinginess or constantly following you
- Toileting indoors despite being toilet trained
- Ignoring commands they usually follow
It's important to rule out medical issues if any new behaviour seems unusual, especially sudden soiling indoors or changes in mood. Always reach out to your vet if you're unsure.
What Causes Dogs To Feel Jealous?
At the heart of canine jealousy is their bond with you. Some common triggers include:
- Introducing a new pet to the home
- Bringing home a new baby or visiting children
- Changes to your routine or attention levels
- Only some pets receiving special treatment, like high-value treats or calming supplements
- Guests or other animals visiting the home
Some breeds, especially those known for forming tight attachments to their humans — such as the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel or Golden Retriever — may be more prone to these behaviours.
How To Respond To A Jealous Dog
When your dog shows signs of jealousy, it’s easy to feel frustrated, but it’s important to respond with understanding and patience. Your dog isn’t being “naughty” — they’re just unsure how to cope. Here’s how you can help:
Stay Calm And Consistent
Yelling or punishing your pup could make things worse. Instead, reward calm, polite behaviour with treats, praise, or playtime. Consistency is key to avoid confusion.
Use Positive Reinforcement
When your dog sits quietly while you interact with another pet or person, reinforce this with a gentle pat or reward. Try training treats for quick improvements.
Ensure Enrichment And Exercise
Boredom can boost jealousy. Providing interactive toys like dog puzzle toys, consistent walks, and play sessions keeps your dog mentally and physically satisfied — and less likely to fixate on jealousy triggers.
Establish Fair Routines
If you have multiple pets, try to maintain fairness when feeding, walking, or cuddling. While it's impossible to achieve perfect balance, spreading your affection evenly can reduce jealousy in your pack.
Use Calming Support Tools
Sometimes, extra help is needed. Natural dog anxiety and calming care aids or tools like pheromone diffusers or calming vests can make your dog feel more secure during stressful changes.
When To Seek Professional Advice
If the jealousy leads to aggression or your dog’s behaviour becomes extreme, it might be time to consult a qualified behaviourist or trainer. Issues that escalate can affect the well-being of all pets (and humans!) in the home. Teams like ours at Petdirect can help guide you to the right calming tools or refer you to professional support.
We Get Pet — And That Includes Jealous Ones
Dog jealousy isn’t about misbehaviour — it’s your pup’s way of saying, “Hey, don’t forget about me!” With the right mix of love, structure and support, your dog can learn to feel confident and secure again. At Petdirect, we’re here to help you understand and care for every side of your pet’s personality — quirks, wags, wiggles and all.
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